I am excited to share with you that we had a huge breakthrough with Ruby's SPD and oral aversion to many foods this week! She actually ate some chicken…real chicken…not minced….not just chew and spit back out…but chewed and swallowed!
This is the first time i have ever been able to get her to eat meat that wasn't minced and in a patty! I had just about given up on her picking up any sort of meat other than bacon but i was nearly in tears when i saw her munch her way through 2 of these chicken sticks!
Regular readers will know that Ruby's sensory processing difficulties lead to frustrating mealtimes and only foods of certain textures and smells will be tolerated. We have been on a long road and reaching this step has taken an enormous amount of trying and patience. I want to say to those that are on this road as well and losing hope….DON'T GIVE UP!!! Keep trying…you too will experience this magic moment i just know it!!
I have tried numerous versions of homemade chicken nuggets and sticks and at first she would not even touch them…i then tried different shapes and found she preferred a round or finger type shape. Somehow these were seen as ‘safe'. Using one of the little bento type forks i discussed as a strategy for SPD eaters in THIS POST we gradually worked up to her taking a bite and chewing (endlessly!). The texture at this point was still too much and she would eventually spit every mouthful back out…but she did bite into it and i had to count that as a success and a step forward!
We have been hovering on that stage for quite a while and i have just kept offering similar foods with some others that i knew she would eat.
The family was having chicken breasts for tea the other night so i decided to try some chicken sticks again…i kept it very simple but did add a few of Ruby's favourite tastes and of course her favourite texture of the panko crumbs!
This is the easy recipe i came up with……
- A chicken breast cut into 2-3cm wide fingers/sticks (no need to be precise…whatever you feel will work for your toddler)
- A little plain flour
- Pinch of garlic salt (optional)
- Pinch of paprika (optional but i find Ruby seems to like a little spice)
- 2 Tbsp Parmesan cheese
- 2 eggs
- 2 Tbsp milk (no need to be precise)
- Panko crumbs (find in Asian section of your supermarket)
- Lay out 3 bowls on the bench in front of you.
- In the first bowl add the flour , salt and paprika…mix gently.
- In the second bowl beat the 2 eggs with a little milk to make a crumb wash
- In the third bowl add a good quantity of panko crumbs and stir through the Parmesan cheese.
- Moving from 1 bowl to the other dip your chicken fingers in the flour first, then the egg wash and finally the crumbs.
- Shallow fry in a large pan (best to have space between the fingers) for approx 2 mins each side or until golden brown, crunchy and cooked on the inside. Don't overdo the chicken or the texture will become to chewy for toddlers to tolerate.
- I cut a few different lengths for the fingers as i always find it best to experiment a little with what the girls will pick up. Ruby preferred the longer fingers, Tara the shorter ones!
They really are very simple and i can't tell you why she actually decided to eat one this time but i guess that is why we just need to keep trying and using the strategies that we know work with our sensitive kids. For Ruby it is still food that is crispy and crunchy and a little salty or spicy. Fingers and patties work well as a shape.
I do still hope that one day she will pick up some chicken breast without needing the crispy coating…but one step at a time.
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Gooseberry Jam says
Yum Jodie, They look great, I think the cheese gives them that extra taste and maybe crunch that might do the trick. Chicken can be so dry and tasteless if its not decorated. I can’t believe how big your girls are now. They look very happy and healthy. You give out so much good info and advice on your Blog Jodie, Do you plan on writing a book? You should!
Have a lovely day
Happy Whimsical Hearts says
Well done Jode and Ruby! That must have felt so good when she ate this super yummy looking meal! And I can see why she would like it 🙂 Good work Jode!
Kate - An Everyday Story says
This is HUGE Jode! Jack’s starting to eat meat too so I can understand your excitement. It’s still a long way to go but these little baby steps are so gratifying.
Jodie Clarke says
So glad you are having some success to Kate…it’s a great feeling isn’t it!
Twins Squared says
That is great news!! Happy for BOTH of you. 🙂
Rez P says
They look delish
Well done on the achievement, tiny steps in the right direction will get her there!!!
Jodie Clarke says
Thanks so much for your lovely comments everyone…it was a good moment for us xx
[email protected] Little Bookcase says
Great news. That must have been a happy meal time.
Yum. You’ve got a great collection of recipes on your blog.
Danya Banya says
Well done! This is a great step in the right direction 🙂
mmmm you are making me hungry!
Jodie this is sooo wonderful congratulations to you for being so persistent with Ruby and yeah Ruby for trying chicken. I can’t blame her really is sounds pretty tasty:) I’m really happy for you Jodie I hope it opens up the world to all of you for trying new foods. xx
They sound delicious, and well done to Ruby (and Mum, it’s such an effort to get to this stage!). My girls both have Autism and our eldest had/has massive food aversions to certain colours, smells and textures. It’s so hard isn’t it when all you want is to see them eating healthy! She is almost 6 now and with a lot of work is eating more variety every month, here’s hoping we can sit down to a fuss free dinner sometime in their teens 😀
Mary Catherine says
I’m so glad to see you’ve had a breakthrough with Ruby, Jodie! Way to go! This looks like a delicious recipe to try with my son. He doesn’t care for much meat either, but he likes Chicken Katsu (which is also made with panko) so I think he’ll enjoy this. Thanks for sharing. 🙂
I’ve never commented on a recipe before, but felt compelled to do so here 🙂 My 5-year-old, 2-year-old and husband all enjoyed these chicken sticks. The 5-year-old – a self-avowed vegetarian who won’t eat vegetables ;p – helped me make them and positively loved them. Thanks!
Robin Broveak says
I made these last night & they were soo good! We had a few friends over for a cookout, my hubby made cornish game hens in the smoker for the adults & I made these for the kids. They were a big hit! The adults all tried them & loved them too. There was left over smoked chicken but these were all gone, I had to keep the adults away from them so the kids could have seconds. Thanks so much for a great recipe I will be making again! The only thing I did add was some shredded cheddar cheese in with the panko.